TuRtle's MuTuAl BoYfriEnd

爱一人

如果你不爱一个人,

请放手.

好让别人有机会爱她.

如果你爱的人放弃了你,

请放开自己,

好让自己有机会爱别人.

有的东西你再喜欢也不会属于你的,

有的东西你再留恋也注定要放弃的.

人生中有许多种 .

但别让自己为一种伤害.

有些缘分是注定要失去的,

有些缘分是永远都不会有好结果的,

爱一个人不一定要拥有,

但拥有一个人就一定要好好的去爱她.

男人哭了是因为他真的爱了.

女人哭了是因为她真的放弃了.

p/s: I believe in this phrase.. Things that are no belongs to you, will never be yours. But how will you know that he/ she is really fated for you? Don't ask me. Because I always failed in that task..

如果真诚是一种伤害,

我选择谎言;

如果谎言一种伤害,

我选择沉默;

如果沉默是一种伤害,

我选择离开.

如果失去是苦，

你怕不怕付出 ,

如果迷乱是苦，

你会不会选择结束,

如果追求是苦，

你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,

如果分离是苦，

你要向谁倾诉,

好多事情都是后来才看清楚,

好多事情当时一点也不觉得苦!!!!

p/s: Sometimes, you need to let go so that you can see the real situation. And I had choose to let him go at that time, because i realize that I do love him, but I also know and realize that my presence will cause him being sandwiched between me and his family. I also doubt that they will accept me with their open heart even we get married one day.

***爱&缘分***

１.她無聊時陪她〃All these, girls also have to do the same thing. Because when a couple come to a relationship,it must be involving both party.

２.她難過時安慰她〃

３.男生要主動點〃

４.多約女友出去〃

５.不能讓女友主動約〃

６.讓她每天都開心愉快〃this bull shit..

７.要好好對待女友〃also bull shit

８.順從女友的意〃also bull shit

９.不要讓她傷心難過〃also bull shit

１０.當她被欺負要立刻去保護她〃also bull shit, only gentleman will do so...

１１.不要隱瞞女友事情〃also bull shit, too honest will have an bad effect to your relationship..so don't do that. 90% honesty will do. Trust me.

１２.不能背叛女友〃this is definately a taboo.. never ever do that..